1. How to know about Mr. Perfect or Mr. Right for single women. Then, Where to find them or when to find them?
Biggest problem. What I find with single women is lack of commitment. Now a days, I find singe women are out-numbered compare with men’s. Because women are younger than men and they tend to live longer more than men’s. There is lack of commitment. Women’s are out numbered. And other issue is some times women are Soo, too focused to find Mr. Right or Mr. Perfect for their life’s and they forget to make good choices for their life’s.
But another real problem with women’s is attraction and because tendency is the more beautiful and attractive and interesting you are? The more guys will be attracted to you. And that is the main cause that single women don’t find a Mr. Right for their life’s in most cases. Because men’s are looking for faithfulness in women’s role.
2. Why it is always women are pleasing men’s?
The answer is: who is pleasing whom? And also the question is that, Are you faithful in relationship with the man you are going to marry with?
The bases of healthy relationship if forgetting, what he wants from you? And looking on yourself. Who you are? Are things are the right with you? I think when you keep an eye on some good guy, then you always have to look that his ideas are matching with your ideas. And if you are really serious about that person then you will never hurt his feelings.
Other things to ask yourself: Do you respect him, what he says. Do you care what his feelings are towards you? As far as I know that both should please each other. It’s like wife submitting towards husbands and then husband will be really be interested to in pleasing you. Other wise they will lose hope and no matter what if you will marry that person things are not going to change.
3. Do you think Single women needs to make her list and test guy before getting on to marriage or relationship?
This is most critical and real problem with single women’s. They always like to test a guy before getting on to relationship or love or marriage.
The real answer is it’s good to make your list of his qualities like five or six out of your list and hang on with his few good qualities don’t expect thirty or more than that. Because no once is perfect in this world. But remember that you are testing some one who is human like you and he it will hurt him, If he come to know about, that you are testing him.
And first of all you need to check, whether he is really interested in you, and other things applies to you and within your life. Make a list of your qualities too also be faithful that you qualify in your own eyes. And also keep in your mind that. What you are looking for in a guy. If you are really faithful then don’t make your list in public and show him off.
This might make him drive in to nuts and he will keep that in his mind forever, even thou if you get married to him.
4. Is it good to marry some one who is out of religion and faith?. I have lot in common with this guy because we chat a lot?
I don’t think this relationship is going to work, if you are talking about faith and Christianity. Bible clearly states that you don’t need to marry some one with, Who does not know Lord?
Regarding your choice yes you need to look some one with similar background, taste and preferences and not in most cases.
But the real question is whether his ideas are matching with your ideas. Are you styles are unique with his needs and wants are. Do you have lot of things in common? How far your personal communication is matching with each other.
I think if you are going to chat with some guy who does not talk any thing about faith and lord. Then he is not your will.
I find lot of single Christian women chatting with guys, who does not know lord.
And God is going to take judgment on all this things for sure, and that is why you see lot of Divorce
5. I am in love with a guy, who is really nice and talkative, but he has an anger problem. Do you think I can marry this person?
My answer is no as well as yes for this.
If you think he has a real anger problem then after marriage also same things are going to happen and both are going to end up in serious troubles. It’s better to say no for such relationship.
But why yes if anger is for good cause because: men’s are not emotional, they take stand for every thing, what seems to be right in their eyes. Because they are made to take responsibilities. And they do get angry some times when their spouses are un-faithful too them. But if the anger is for good cause that is good.
Single Christian women’s need to understand that they should love their Christian husbands. Because they will do will if you don’t make them drive them into nuts.
6. My boy friend is 10 years older than me. Do you think I can give in marriage or relationship? I really love him but because of age? And do you think he will wait for me if, I reveal him about my interests?
Answer to this is yes age never counts if you made him your choice. But I am sure you are not going to marry some once who is 15 or 25 years older than you?. But the real thing is to ask him that you really love him and gets answers real quick. Some are healthy and some are hard to get.
And the best thing is to get the answers quickly; I am sure once he reaches his 27 he has to make his own choices. If you think he really loves you than love him and don’t wait. Talk about finances and career issues and get settled.
But don’t wait too long to get your answers. And also know he is older than you he has different thinking and thought process. So you need to get adjusted to it and you need to give respect to his ideas. I think this is going to work for wiser women’s.
7. When can I expect my boy friend to reveal the thing to me like love and marriage??? How long can I wait to get ready??? Can I wait more than 3 years?
Good question. I think within 3 years you will come to know about your boy friend, whether, he really loves you or not ? I think you really need to talk to your boyfriend, give him that chance to say that he really loves you not written but with his own words.
If you are not giving him any chance, he will never come to that point. The best way is to give him that chance.
Lot many single women, they don’t give any chance to them to talk about this. They keep on finding other ways. And I think you need to know, whether he is really interested in you in first sense. The other thing is how committed you are, do you agree with each other. How strong you communication is ? Do you talk much or just keep on smiling with each other, the best ways is to talk more and find out answers.
If you think he is not interested in you say then say NEXT. There is no other way to say next and find other ? Because you are wasting your time.
"I say how long you will wait wish bone you need a back bone"
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